I've had an interesting few days, with interesting conversations, amongst fabulously riveting people.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 #𝟏 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬: What's the key to achieving your dreams and goals in life?
𝐌𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫: 𝐌𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐝𝐫𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 🌊🌊🌊🌊🚣♀️
In other words:
✅ Make certain you KNOW the people in your life. Who you choose to be surrounded by.
✅ Make sure they are FOR you, and not AGAINST you.
✅ Make certain there is mutual respect and honesty.
✅ Make sure there is mutual alignment toward the common goal.
If not... the seas will be rough. And you're pretty much screwed (sorry, but you really are).
You'll sink in no time. (Depending on how fast someone is at drilling holes perhaps.)
No man is an island !
Rest assured you WILL be affected by your surroundings, your relationships, the immediate people surrounding you, the ones you interact with regularly.
𝐍𝐨 𝐞𝐱𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐋𝐚𝐰 ❌🙅♀️
So, if any of your Life Crew are drilling holes left-right-center instead of rowing towards land...
𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨:
👉Accept the fact that your boat is sinking.
👉Speak up and have uncomfortable/difficult conversations.
👉Set solid boundaries. Protect your body, mind, spirit and energy 🙌
👉Have the courage to make tough decisions if the boundaries are not met.
👉Ultimately, this may look like 'firing' some of your 'crew members' too 🙋♀️ (See ya! Adios! Au revoir! Ciao!)
How can you sail along your destiny in one piece if you constantly find that your crew instead of helping, is sabotaging instead?
You can't !!! 😱😱😱
𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲: Choose your people wisely.
The quality of your Life does indeed depend on it.
That's the secret to having the greatest chance of smooth seas, and sailing toward your destiny, achieving your goals in one radiant piece 💜
Well, that's my take on it anyway!
Marie-Chantal x
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